UNMET NEEDS MEANS SHELTER FOR A FAMILY OF SEVEN
Tuesday, May 31, 2011
When a military family of seven hit rock bottom, VFW was there to cushion the fall ...
“We prayed every night that
our electricity and heat wouldn’t be turned off during the winter months. We
were afraid we’d be thrown out onto the streets … forced to live in our car. We
had no one,” said Amy Perez, wife of Sgt. Alexis Perez, 10-year military
member.
Sgt. Perez incurred several
injuries during his final, two-year-long deployment to Iraq. In three separate
incidents, Sgt. Perez suffered five slipped disks, a broken ankle, fractured
foot and shin, permanent hearing loss, severe memory loss and Post Traumatic
Stress.
“There were times when my
husband couldn’t remember our oldest daughter’s name,” said Amy.
In the face of severe pain
and mental turmoil, Perez continued to serve his country, which he did without
proper medical attention. It wasn’t until a bullet grazed his head and sent him
tumbling down a cement tower, that the military took notice and medically
retired Perez.
Newly retired, Perez was
given a mere three weeks to leave military housing and relocate with his wife
and five children.
“We did okay the first three
months,” said Amy, “but by then our savings was used up and my husband’s
benefits never came. Each month, we prayed the money would come through, but we
just got further and further behind.”
Given the extent of Perez’s
injuries, Amy was forced to quit her job and care for him full-time. Suddenly
two incomes became none.
As times got tougher, the
Perez children—who changed schools for the third time in three years due to
military housing issues—began to feel the pressure.
“I couldn’t buy my children
clothes or school supplies. I couldn’t even give them a proper birthday party,”
said Amy. “And the kids at school were cruel, harassing my kids and calling
them ‘poor’. It really took a toll on them.”
It was almost Christmas last
year when Amy found the help her family needed.
“I searched countless
websites looking for help for military families, and finally found VFW.”
After submitting an
application for assistance, Amy received a $2,500 grant from VFW Unmet
Needs. The grant covered past
due rent and utilities.
“Because of the grant, we
kept our home and made it through to March, when Alexis’ benefits were finally
granted,” said Amy.
Amy is grateful for all the
supporters that make this grant available to families in need.
“Because of these generous
people, we are happy, healthier and working hard to get back to normal,” Amy
concluded.
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